Email Etiquette: Do We Really Need to Reply All?

Reply All

The ever-so-popular Reply All button can be a powerful tool in the hands of any business professional. It can also turn your emails into “white noise” in the inboxes of your colleagues. Using Reply All at the right time can be very useful in keeping everyone informed on an important, relevant subject. However, at the wrong time, it can be rude to the original sender and the entire recipient list. So, when discussing email etiquette, we must ask the following question: do we really need to Reply All?

Finding a healthy balance of using Reply All and answering directly to a specific recipient can be a tricky task. In my opinion, there should be a standard set of rules, or basic tests, applied to help determine when it is appropriate to hit Reply All and when it is not.

Before replying, ask yourself the following:

  • Is my reply too simple?
    If it’s one of the following, it definitely is: “Yes.” “No.” “Thanks.”
    Really, any sentence consisting of one to three words isn’t worthy of a Reply All response.
  • Is the group too large?
    In general, Reply All should be constrained to 15 recipients or less. The best rule of thumb is to look at the recipient list before sending your email. If it consists only of your department, immediate group members or peers then you are safe to Reply All. If it encompasses larger groups, or multiple departments, where less than 50% of the group is relevant to the message, you may want to think twice sending to everyone.
  • Do I have something valuable to add to the conversation?
    Just stating that you agree with the message isn’t normally valuable insight. An edit, change, or any other insight that brings new light to the topic are acceptable occasions to utilize the Reply All function; even constructive disagreements can be sent to the entire recipient list, as long as your goals are not to publicly insult or humiliate any one recipient.

Reply All has been so widely overused that Google now has a Mute Button to silence redundant replies from people who have not mastered the art email etiquette. After hitting mute, the user will discontinue seeing emails within a certain thread. While this is a potentially useful solutions to the “white noise” cluttering your inbox, important messages within the thread can be missed and miscommunication will ensue.

In order to effectively communicate in the workplace we all need to reread emails and go through the aforementioned rules/tests before hitting the send button. Ask yourself if you would want your response clogging up your inbox.

Here are some scenarios on when to send a direct response rather than replying to everyone:

  • A new colleague is introduced to the company via email – send those warm welcomes directly to the newbie!
  • An old colleague leaves the company or retires – wish them well directly.
  • RSVPs – Always RSVP directly to the sender.
  • You are BCCed on an email. You were “Blind Carbon Copied” for a reason, keep it that way.
  • Rhetorical questions contained in the email. Silence is golden in this scenario. If you want to chime in, do it in a direct reply.
  • Birthday wishes. Take the personal route and by removing all other recipients except the birthday boy/girl.
  • Inspirational or Joke emails. The entire company does not need to be inundated with emails of how funny you think this year’s BIG GAME commercials are.

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Mike Oskorep is the Director of Managed Digital Services at Dealer Product Services. He oversees the Managed Services team comprised of BMW & MINI eTraction, AutoConnect, MobileTouch, and eCSI programs at DPS. Mike has a diverse background that includes Information Technology, Data systems, Phone Systems, eMail Marketing, Warehouse Management, and even Law Enforcement. Continuously evolving his role at Dealer Product Services, Mike remains true to his favorite saying, “if you’re not changing, you’re dying.” In his free time Mike spends time with his wife, Betsy, and their two daughters, Emma and Lilly. You can also see him hitting bombs in the Midwest Suburban Men’s Baseball League; he is in his 13th season in the MSL, a Men’s Fastpitch Amateur Baseball league in the Greater Chicagoland area.

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